Loss , Grief and Other Life Transitions

We may lose a loved one. We may lose our job. We may lose our health.

When we lose someone or something important, grief follows. This is a natural response to loss.

Unfortunately, we live in a fast paced world that often times does not accommodate our need for time and space to fully attend to our losses and make sense of things.

A Way Forward

But just as surely as night turns into day, there is a way forward through grief and loss.

Some call it the work of soul alchemy - turning lead into gold. Others speak of growing roses from garbage; yet others speak of learning to live with an amputation.

Whatever metaphor you may use to describe your grief and loss, the fact is that it can rip us to our core and make us feel alone and leave us with unanswered questions.

How I Can Help You

I offer a safe and confidential space - either in person or via Zoom - informed by my years of experiences in the world. I have been a companion to many people in their grief - starting from when I was twenty years old.

And yes, in case you are wondering, I too have experienced varied losses and ensuing grief, so I can relate to what you are experiencing.

As difficult as it may feel to imagine it now, there is a way forward. You can move forward in ways that honor your loss, and at the same time, discover hidden strengths that will sustain you through your grief.

In addition to being your companion and guide as you navigate your unique journey, I am also your midwife; I help you give birth to a revised you and your new life on the other side of loss and grief.

Services Tailored for You

Drawing from a variety of mind, body and soul approaches, I adapt the specifics of our work to who you are, what matters the most to you and is aligned with your core values and beliefs.

My grief work is an expression of the calling I feel to support people in ways that go beyond the traditional confines of medical care and psychotherapy.

As a proponent of love, my goal is to help people reconnect with love in ways that transcend their losses.

Guided Intuitive Exploration

In addition to grief and loss, I offer guided intuitive explorations drawing from indigenous traditions around the world. These kinds of inner journeys are a part of our collective human heritage and many people find them useful as a way of gaining insights and tuning into the compass of their heart. Our intuition is a powerful ally and can offer helpful insights into the longings of the soul and heart.

Answering a Calling

I felt a calling to serve people on what some might refer to as the "soul level" or the realm of the sacred.

For that reason, I studied at two inter-faith seminaries in the United States and was ordained by the New Seminary for Interfaith Studies in New York, which is the world's first interfaith seminary founded by Rabbi Joseph Gelberman.

I am well versed in the major religions and spiritual traditions of the world, and am also informed about the spiritual needs of atheists and agnostics.

Interfaith Approaches and Touching on the Universal

In addition to book knowledge, my interfaith work is also informed by my lived daily life experiences, as my family is comprised of members of all major religions; and I also have relatives who are agnostic and atheist.

Spirituality is a universal aspect of a full human life. It may be expressed in a myriad of ways. Common themes across humans around the world include those of love, compassion and caring for one another.

Themes in the Grief Ministry Work

The above are definitely themes that we will incorporate into our work along with looking at transcending grief through making meaning, taking actions to honor our loved ones and intuitively tuning into the uniqueness of your situation.

Depending on your interests and preferences, we can draw from humankind's legacy of treasures such as poetry, music and art and integrate that into our work together.

Additionally, nature helps many people ease the pain of loss, and we can explore how you can integrate nature both into specific ceremonies and ongoing practices to honor the memory of your loved one.

What You Can Expect from Me In Our Work Together

Human beings are social animals and we are wired to connect with one another. You don't need to be alone in your grief. I am here for you and offer a non-judgmental, compassionate presence.

I offer you a place - apart from the usual rush and hurry of the world - where you can attend to the compass of your heart. Some people refer to this as connecting with their Higher Self or connecting with the Divine Light.

I am an intuitive and empathic listener and will join you in attunement - and share with you whatever insights I receive.

Additionally, I am an informed strategist - in that I share with you gems from Eastern and Western wisdom and philosophical traditions, indigenous practices such as music, nature immersions and guided meditations - to help you navigate your loss and grief.

If you want someone to pray with you, I can accompany you. If you want to sit in reflection and see what insights might arise in the silence, I can be your companion.

What this is Not

Please keep in mind that my grief ministry and intuitive explorations are not psychotherapy.

Psychotherapy is about addressing issues that interfere with optimal functioning and flourishing. In a sense it is to restore back into function what might be broken or off track. It is also characterized by such things as the use of research informed, evidence based practices.

In contrast, the work of the soul is about drawing from the wealth of our collective human heritage and diverse traditions. The goal of this kind of work is to find comfort, make sense of loss and connect with one's soul and higher purpose within the realm of our spiritual life.

Grief and loss are a normal part of life that call us to attend to them. It is also normal to be left questioning long-held assumptions and goals when life hits us with the unexpected.

This is where my services can be of help. I am your companion, supporter and insight partner.

If You Are Having Trouble Functioning

If you are experiencing suicidal thoughts or are experiencing psychological symptoms that interfere with your ability to work, sleep etc, or if you feel that you need alcohol or other substances to manage life, please seek the help of a health care provider and / or mental health professional immediately.

My Philosophy on Plant Medicine

Although I draw from various indigenous practices, (such as meditation, chanting, nature walks,) I do not offer any services involving mind altering substances, which at times are also known by names such as "plant medicine" or "sacred medicine."

Limitations of My Services

Please keep in mind that my grief ministry and intuitive services are not intended as legal, financial, medical or any other forms of advice. I am a companion and guide for matters on the level of your soul. My work is most aligned with philosophy, literature, art and spirituality.

How to Reach Me

You can reach me via the contact form below and together we can explore if I am a good match for your situation.

If we decide to work together, I can accept PayPal from anywhere in the world. I have some sliding scale slots for people experiencing financial difficulties.